Recognize the importance of setting goals.
Let’s say you have the extraordinary ability to kick a ball farther and more accurately than anyone you know. As a result, you want to become a soccer player. But then when you’re on the soccer pitch and the ball comes to you, you just kick it as hard as you can in whatever direction you’re facing. Just being on a pitch and kicking a ball doesn’t make you a soccer player; at this stage, you are just someone who can kick a ball.